What is a ruined orgasm?

A ruined orgasm is a type of orgasm control that involves purposely disrupting or delaying a person's climax during sexual activity. This can be done through stopping stimulation at the point of climax or using certain techniques to hinder the intensity of the orgasm.

Some people enjoy ruined orgasms because they can result in a heightened state of arousal and prolonged pleasure. It can also lead to greater control over one's sexual responses and potentially increase the intensity of future orgasms.

However, ruined orgasms may not be pleasurable for everyone and can cause frustration or disappointment if the desired climax is not achieved. It is important for partners to communicate openly and establish consent before engaging in any type of orgasm control play.